what is true love in a relationship?
However, people’s aspiration for true love goes even form before that.
Whereas little children start reading fairy tales, and ultimately, the prince and the princess they fall in love, and they live happily ever after.
So, every girl thinks that there’s probably some prince charming who will come one day who will come one day, will be so handsome. He will come riding on a white horse. And he will take me away, and then we will live happily ever after.
Every boy probably thinks that one day, I will find this girl who serves me in every way, and when I sleep, she will press my feet, then we will live happily ever after.
But the problem is when the honeymoon wears off, the reality comes before that this before charming snores in the night. And he has got bad breath. And he even forgets my birthday.
And then how do you adjust with this situation?
Once a couple comes to me over the fight that they wear having amongst themselves. The fight was about a cat. The husbands complain was that when he would go to the office, the silly cat would me and chew up the computer wires. He was annoyed with the wife that why could she not take care while he was away?
And the wife’s complaint was that she had no servants to look after the cat. And they came to me that whose fault was it?
I said, “look, both are more attached to your silly opinions then you are attached to each other.
what is true love between a man and a woman?
One old man- 80 years old, he went to a hospital to get his stitches removed. he asked the doctor, “please hurry up.” It was 8:30. He said,” by nine o’clock, I need to go to another hospital.”
The doctor said, “You have another doctor’s appointment?”
He said, ” No, I need to go and meet my wife. We have breakfast together.” He explains his wife had Alzheimer’s, and it had been five years. He nevertheless fulfilled his commitment. He would definitely go and have breakfast with her.
The doctor asked, “will your wife not be upset you are getting late today?”
He said, “You know; Since last few years, She does not even recognize me.”
The doctor said, “In that case, what sense does it make? She does not even know who you are, and still, you go and have breakfast with her?”
He said, “Whether she recognizes me or not, I recognize who she is. I made a commitment to this leady 50 years ago, and I have to fulfill that commitment. That is true love.
It is not necessarily romantic. It requires adjustments. It requires sacrifices. If somebody is willing to make the sacrifices, willing to make the adjustments, then that person can truly find love.
True love is that where there is not self-seeking. The urge is to give, to sacrifice. Not my happiness, but the happiness of the beloved.
true love include Importance of ‘we’ in relationship,
share sorrow, Take something in love, Feeling of sacrifice, Love unconditionally, Effort, Fulfill the promise, and Share their problems
What are the characteristics of true love?
- True love judges infrequently
- True love means putting your lovers need equal to, or before your own.
- True love is an ocean of tenderness.
- True love motivate you.
- True love trusts willingly
- True love understand without speaking
- True love will want to stay with you forever.
- True love makes people become better